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Check Please! Lauren O’Brien and Alexandria Stylebook

In the News - Check Please! Who Should Pay On The First Date

In navigating money and dating, Lauren O’Brien, Senior Wealth Advisor at XML and Erika Ettin, founder of A Little Nudge, offers nuanced advice in their latest interview. While there’s no strict rule, generally its advised that male clients pay and female clients offer, balancing gestures of generosity with feminist values. They both find splitting the bill potentially awkward and prefers clear communication about who will pay before the date. As relationships progress, Erika suggests discussing finances when both parties feel comfortable. Ultimately, both emphasize that dating etiquette should reflect mutual respect and genuine interest in each other, rather than financial dynamics alone. Read the full interview here: 

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